Showing posts with label philosophy of life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label philosophy of life. Show all posts

30 Mar 2016

Love and Prejudice



Once upon a time there was a small town. A happy town! People were happy with whatever they have with them. Everything was going on smoothly except with one house, where everything was not going smoothly. A forty years old man was very sick. His family tried different types of treatments to cure his illness but in vain. Not a single treatment was effective. Old man was getting weaker and weaker.
On one unfortunate day he passed away. His fourteen years old son was wretched, he felt alone because his main support was no longer in this world. He was his one and only son. He loved his father very much. Death of his beloved father made his condition miserable.
When he was small kid, he heard from someone that far from the town, in a village there lives a divine saint, he has magical powers, and he can make anything possible. The son thought to pay a visit to this saint. So he went to the saint who was living very far from the town. He went there and explained his tragic loss and how he feels now without his father. He then expressed his wish to bring back his father to life. The saint explains him how this is not possible. But the stubborn lad was not in a mood to listen. Saint tried to console him, but it was in vain. Saint then asks him to do one thing if he succeeds in doing that then he will bring his father back to life. The lad agrees to him. Saint asks him to pluck a leaf from the tree. After listening to such a simple task the lad goes plucks the leaf and comes back to saint. Saint then says ‘now go back, and plant that leaf to exact place on a tree from where you plucked the leaf and make sure it comes to life again.’ The lad gets confused and asks how it is possible. The leaf is already plucked now how can I plant it to tree again.
The saint then explains him ‘if you cannot put a simple leaf back to his life how you expect me to bring your father back to life.it is not possible.’ The lad agrees to him. But again since he was a good, loving and caring son he asks the saint, ‘it is said person goes to heaven after his death, or in hell, I don’t want my father to go in hell. I want him to be happy; I want him to rest in heaven. Since you are a divine saint, you know everything, I have heard you make impossible things possible please fulfill my wish. As I loved my father, I don’t want him to suffer in hell.’    
Looking at the lad and his good intentions to keep his father away from the suffering, Saint feels empathetic for him, and thinks how to console him this time, after lot thinking he comes with a solution. He smiles at him and says ‘it is possible but the remedy is very difficult. It is not your cup of tea. The Son said I love my father, howsoever the difficult is the remedy I will complete it.’ Looking at his determination saint became happy. He then asked him to bring pure and clean water, some sugar and some salt.
After bringing them, he asked the son to mix one table spoon sugar into the jar full of water. And asks him to taste the water. The son says water is somewhat sweet. Then he asks to mix one table spoon of salt in it and asks to taste it. It has become salty the lad replies. He then asks him to add one more table spoon of salt. And again asks to taste it. This time water has become too much salty.
The saint then says ‘our life is just like the pure and clear water. Whatever good deeds we do it makes our life sweet and valuable, and whatever bad deeds we do it makes our life salty and useless. Nobody likes the salty water not even you then how do you expect the heaven would like the person with bad deeds. If your father has done enough good deeds then he will eventually be liked and welcomed in the heaven. Otherwise not.’
The Lad gets the point, and says thank you to the saint for enlightening him and leaves the place with satisfaction.
We also sometimes act like the Lad, in the story, don’t we? Asking lord to give us what is practically impossible to happen, and when it doesn’t happen as per the wish we start cursing ourselves or the society.            

12 Feb 2016

You gotta look up to get down


“You gotta look up to get down.” An interesting line I came up today, while rewatchign the TV series “Entourage.” It is said that rewatching movies is a comforting act that can make you feel more stable and smile remembering the past, as per the study carried out by Cristel Antonia Russell and Sidney J. Levy. In 2012. So as per them I was just getting stable and revisiting my good old past, and smiling on things which used to look to cool then, and surprisingly they still look cool if you just forget the logic and apply the possibility that this can happen in real world also.

The line I was so fascinated with was “You gotta look up to get down”. it has an interesting hidden meaning , it says you need to look up means you need to fix your target, your goal before you get down with the business of achieving them.  Many a times it happens that you are so excited to achieve your goal that you forget which is the right path towards your goal, and you end up on wrong path, need to do things which should not be done, but for achieving the goal such things happen.   
In today’s world people are ready to get down to anything but they don’t know where to go. Here is an classic example of Mr. W, who love to write. To Write something good which people will like to read carefully and think on it, is every writer’s dream, so was Mr W’s. Keeping this on mind he decides to work as corporate policy maker in a reputed company, where he would get a chance to make working guidelines which people will read carefully, think on it and act on the same. Initially it was very thrilling job for Mr. W, but as the time passed by, he got bored and got frustrate. What could be the reason?
The reason is “You gotta look up to get down”.  You need to think what you want to do before you actually do what you want to do.  

Another live example, I witnessed with my eyes. A guy recently married, having a decent job was living in a tier one city. With one added partner in his life, he thought of earning some extra money, so he came up with a magical idea, and he executed it. He switched job, it gave him decent hike in his salary, he was happy with his salary, and company was good, his wife was happy. But the thing was this job location was country side. Initially he loved the atmosphere, the slow life, limited people, and with his knowledge from the city, made him famous in the village. People started to like him, respect him. As days passed, he got frustrate. Because there was no growth in him, the slow life made him less competitive, there was no fight left in him because of his current lifestyle. What went wrong? Was the need of money wrong? Or the decision he took to satisfy the need was wrong? Sometimes we are so immersed in the problem that our thinking gets blurred, we tend to take most comfortable and easiest path. Here in this case he did exactly the same, but if he could have decided to stay in the city only and work hard to earn more money, then he would have achieved his goal and instead to getting frustrated he could have become the happy man. But he chose other otherwise. After all we are outcome of choices we make.